Jacob's Blog

Dear Human Spirits,

In our daily life we meet other people, sometimes this meeting represent something nice for us and sometimes not. Sometimes we simply ignore that fact that we meet somebody, for me every meeting is a chance to learn something new, even with the people that makes us feel bad. We are here on earth plane on a journey to experience the mystery of what we perceive to call life. And in every meeting we have a chance to learn or see something new. Maybe we will not understand the meaning of this encounter until later on, but there sure is a gift for us. The task for us is to allow us self to accept this gift and take the learning and experience with us on our continues journey in life.

If we meet the fear in our encounter with others, it is a possibility for us to look on fear in our life. What is fear really? Is it something real or is it something that our mind have projected out to be a emotion? Is it possible to die from fear, or is this just something that our mind think it is? If you think a lot about fear, will it then go away, or will it grown even bigger? And what happens if you just ignore fear? Most people I know, me included have fear on some level. Some have the fear of dying, and some the fear of living. We cannot tell other people that fear is not allowed, because in there life it might be a very important part of who they are. And it might even represent a shield that they have used years to build up around them to avoid suffering. But the question is, are they avoiding suffering or are they holding it within the shield? Can we live without suffering if we hold on to our fear?

Take a deep breath and feel into this… Do it until you have the answer within yourself….

I have the fear of not being good enough, and my life and brain have learned me that in order to be good enough I have to live up to others standards so that they will love me. So in other words, I have to figure out how to get other people to like me. This is a heavy burden that I have put on myself, because it demands that I always have to be aware of other peoples needs. And dear friends picture this, a smaller version of me running around trying to figure out what to do and what to say in order for others to like me. No wonder that I’m get very tired being with a lot of people in a longer period of time ) It’s a difficult task to run around a feel into to each and every body the whole time.

Now I have learned this fear to know I can accept it and embrace it, it has learned me a great deal about other people and on how to be empathic around others. So I breathe this fear in as my good friend, and a very tired friend… For now I will allow this friend to rest and to be at peace, my friend has done the work that was needed for me and I’m ready to move on to another exciting adventure. I take my time, breathing with my friend, taking for all the wonderful experience that I have learned and open my heart for this special friend to enter. Maybe you also have a special friend that need retirement, thank them for the hard work they have been doing for you over the years, and accept them in your heart.

I wish you, a joyful meeting with someone special,

Love to you,

Jacob